How Practicing Gratitude Can Increase Your Happiness

By Julie Leonard

First or several years now I have had a small wooden tray with a jar and a pen and a little pile of coloured paper sitting on my desk. And at the end of each day I write down something I am thankful for. Some days it is something big, like today and my new comfortable bed arriving. Other days it is simply I watched a squirrel on my balcony or the sun was shining. This simple act of expressing gratitude can radically affect my mood and my mindset.

Our human brains have a tendency to focus on the negatives. Did you know that it takes FIVE positive comments to counteract ONE negative comment? It seems that people find it much easier to tune in to negative things than in to positive ones. One of the areas I often start with when I am coaching a client is to listen to the language that they use. So many times the women I work with talk in absolutes. Everything. Nothing. Nobody. Everything went wrong today, Nobody loves me, Nothing ever goes right for me…..But often they are not aware that they are doing it. In over 25 years of supporting clients I have never found these statements to be true. It is often how the person feels but when we take a closer look, its not completely true.

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The practice of gratitude is an effective way to begin to shift your negative thinking and to remove those absolutes. When you feel that everything went wrong today or that the day was awful, taking a few minutes to think about something positive in the day that you are thankful for can shift your mindset into a more positive one. It also helps you sleep better and wake up the next day in a more positive mood.

And don’t just take my word for it. The world’s leading expert on gratitude is Dr. Robert Emmons, a professor of psychology at the University of California who has carried out research that links the practice of gratitude to living a happier life.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-mindful-self-express/201511/how-gratitude-leads-happier-life

What we know from research is that daily gratitude can have a deep and far reaching effect on our lives. People who practice gratitude regularly:

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•Report higher level of happiness than those who do not.
•Have closer and more meaningful relationships
•Live more in the present moment and are more mindful
•Are kinder and more compassionate
Are more resilient in stressful situations
•Are more focussed on the positives in their lives
•Have a strong and positive mindset
•Have a more balanced perspective and dwell less on first world problems
•Are physically and mentally healthier.

Wow! All of this from writing down a few words each day!

So why not kick off this year with an Attitude of Gratitude, buy a nice notebook and pen or get creative and make a Gratitude jar and embrace one of the simplest ways to increase your happiness.

Interested in increasing your happiness in 2018? Why not join my monthly Happiness Club. Email me at julie@potentiacentre.com for more details. And if you’d like to find out more about Coaching and how you can transform your life, come along to my FREE seminar -What Can Coaching Do For Me? On Tuesday 16th January at 7pm. Email me to reserve your place.

9D4CFA68-0606-4730-9401-365E21B43C49Julie Leonard – Life Coach, Aromatherapist, Seminar Facilitator and Speaker.
I never used to be this confident! For a long time I was very shy and anxious but I changed my self and turned my life around and I am passionate about sharing my techniques and 25 years of experience with you so that you too can transform your life and feel truly happy. My other love is essential oils and how to use them every day for self care. My current favourite is Frankincense. And I’ll happily chat to anyone about them over a cup of tea and some freshly baked scones!
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